Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Headed to Boston!

Im going on an overnight getaway with my hubby! I will be gone till Friday and Im sure I will have many fun stories from our trip when I return. Talk with you all soon :)

not so Goodmorning!

I had great intentions to start the day off right with a healthy breakfastand leisurly morning jog. I cant even tell you how many time I make deals with myself that I am going to do thing such as this, but as normal I didnt wake up untill the last minute possible and was I was pretty grumpy when I did. Mornings are the hardest time for Chad (thats my husband) and I to get along. Neither of us are morning people and when you have a 2 year old the option of sleeping in goes out the window! Since the very beggining of our relationship we have been working on being more pleasent in the mornings, since they have an affect on how the rest of our days turn out. So as you can see the daily marriage tip is on compromising, as part of my bad morning I started the day off by yelling at Chad about how the air conditioner was blasting on me all night! He returned with complaining about sweating all night yadda yadda yadda. Now after stepping out of the situation and gauging its importance I realized I just wasted a completely good morning on a pointless argument that could have been solved with a simple switch of placement in bed. So in experiencing this I thought it would be good for us all to look at areas in our marriage that we may need to be more compromising. Are there any issues in your marriage that you feel you could be a little more compromising on? Or on the flip side, are there any issues that you feel so strongly about you arent even sure how you could compromise? Hope you all have a fabulous mornings! Talk to you again soon.

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

What I'm up to.

I'm currently at my in-laws house in Worcester, Ma. We have been here visiting since June 28th and don't head back home until August 28th. Many people may look at a 2 month long visit at their in-laws as a death sentence, I on the other hand really appreciate the time I get to spend getting to know them more and more. But like I said previously I am going to give the honest truth, the good the bad and the ugly. There are some challenges though; living in a house with eight people and one shower is a huge challenge alone.
Do in-laws ever lead to arguments between you and you spouse?

I do!

Hello all of you beautiful wives out there! I have decided to start this blog as a way to share my life as a wife. There are just some things about marriage you can’t really have a grasp on untill you experience it for yourself. I think a lot of people try to hide the hard times in their marriage because they don’t want others to judge them. I will provide everyone with the good, bad, and the ugly (and sometimes there’s a lot of ugly) parts of my marriage. Also I hope to show you positive ways to deal with the many complications. I don’t want this to be a place to husband bash or drown in self-pity, but instead a place for women to encourage one another and a place for you to see you are not alone in your life as a wife. marriage can be hard at times but if you work hard and love unconditionally it can be one of the most amazing relationships this world has to offer. Please bear with me as I am new to blogging and to marriage I don’t promise to be perfect but I promise to be completely honest with you about everything. I do!